The stock orange or black large O ring works fine , but some aftermarket/accessory derby covers require the large circular gasket.
Usually both are not used at the same time.
Yes the stock OEM from new black ( sometimes orange !) large "O" ring works well and is reuseable many times if you are careful with cleaning and placement.
Sometimes you have to clean them ( don't stretch it !) and put them in a poly bag in the freezer to "shrink" them before carefully replacing them in the groove.
The groove is in the derby cover itself y'see.
Those paper/rubber/metal composite full size gaskets ( says face towards clutch or similar on them) ALWAYS fuck up eventually.
I am starting to wonder if your whole outer primary cover may be aftermarket ? Happens all the time , first thing to get munted on the left side usually.