You're right gidgi, P=V x I. But I will not be drawing any more current than rated with a higher capacity alternator - it's the voltage part of the equation that I want to keep up to what it should be. Lamps, heaters, radios, fans etc will draw only what they need - they will not draw more just because a higher capacity alternator is fitted. I am just wanting to increase the available 'capacity' of the alternator so as to reduce the voltage drop I'm seeing now when it is loaded up. It's all just about keeping the voltage up where it should be. My voltage regulator is fine as it keeps voltage up at around 13.8 volts when not too loaded up.
No expert myself but would a higher capacity battery help?
just sumfin I pulled of the net to show 3 different capacity batteries for your 96 wide glide https://www.batterystuff.com/batteries/motorcycle/harley-davidson/1996/1340cc-fxdfxst-seriesdyna/ maybe worth a try if you have a lower CCA (cold cranking amps ) battery note the 150 cca 320 cca or 500 cca in the link , hope it works check what you have good luck