hey can anyone recommend a new comer to motor bikes, what is the best Harley to get? What should I look for? or any other tips?

Can't recall what the title was but some where in the last two general topic pages there is a thread which asks about 20 questions and If you you remember you also want a good looking bike you will end up with a Softy. Just kidding, go find the thead, answer the Qs and get some rides off a dealer.

Just go to the dealership and sit on every one in there and test ride them if able to. Only way to tell.

OSP1340 is right. First of all go to the dealer and check out the entire range.
Than narrow down to Dyna or Softail. Ride all the bikes you like and get a minimum of 1-2 hours of riding time on each.
I ended up with Street Bob and couldn't be happier.