Don't go a Sportster mate. They are Ok if you are new to motorcycles but you will get bored with it very quickly as an experienced rider. I bought exactly the same 2003 883XL as my first Harley years ago, I had it about a month before I bought a Fatbob instead. The FXDF is the Harley I should have bought in the first place. Go to your local dealer and test ride them all, however in my opinion a BIG TWIN is the the way to go, not the 883.
It's a girls bike..
Welcome John. As others have said, for a few more $$$ I think you need to have a good look around, if it's a Sportster, then 1200 min. I had a 1200 custom and loved it but there are plenty of bikes for sale so test a few out. Good luck with the purchase.