If a local dealer could not supply the bike you wanted and you got it from another dealer would they get there nose out of joint and spit the dummy?
They may do, but it's the only way they will learn to give people what they want.
I agree, Dealers should show more respect to their customers, some but not all think they know it all. I know of somebody that got abused by a dealer and that was after a bike purchase from them, how low can you get. As for service departments they are only as good as there techs.
Purchased my last ride from interstate. My local dealer services my ride and sells me parts just the same as if I had purchased the ride from them. Gave them first chance but 3k is 3k.