Hey BB,  I can't help cause I is dumb when it comes to spanner work.   However, if ya dont get a reply post it in the Workshop - General area. 

Softail Delux - nice mate, nice.

No drama's with any of that. You can run ATF Type F in the Primary if you like to save a couple of bucks. I use Sin 15 in the engine and Primary, and Synthetic Gear oil in the Tranny. I will go the shockproof when it is due a change.