+1 on the 42 HSR
Is the SU giving you problems? I know they need tuning more than most, but a well set up SU works. what size is the SU you have?
Get the S&S G carby mate have it tuned and they work bloody beaut. Fit the bigger element and you can't do better.
First off, there is no best carb for a Harley, as long as they are tuned right, a CV40 flows about same air as the S&S E or the Mikuni HSR42 just some people don't know how to tune them. i think a cv44 would suit you it should flow enough air, they work great as they ajust to ellivation and being constant velocity you don't have to worry so much how hard you open throtle they excellerate.
but then we come to the biggest problem, if it's an evo softail & you ride it flat out it will eventually fall apart from the vibration, you have to keep checking things are not loose or cracked. but i've managed to ride Harley for a long time and a long way and at reasonably fast speeds. just have to understand them. if you want to ride fast & not touch the bike, might be the wrong bike. but give it a go see how you go.